Expectations?
People
see you as an object, not as a person, and they project a set of
expectations onto you. People who don’t have it think beauty is a
blessing, but actually it sets you apart.
-Candace Bergen
This quote plays a huge role in mylife.. i guess everyone has expectations set on u 2 live up 2..sumhow i think if its ure own expectations..dats fine.. even if its others who have expectations on u its totally fine..wats not fine is High expectations..when u start livin up 2 dat..u just seem 2 lose ureself in d process.. Many of us struggle with expectations..
“…dreams so often get confused with expectations …you end up aiming for the expectations instead of just living the life that comes to you…”
We expect d most n d best of everything.We r an affluent culture with many choices n many material possessions.We r a culture where individuals constantly compare themselves 2each
other. We c others having or achieving things n we expect 2 have or achieve d best of whatever we c. D media n their advertisers
promote these expectations – if u take this pill u will feel happy n have friends, if u use this mouthwash u will have a healthy relationship, or if u vote for d rite presidential candidate u will b free from d fear of terrorism. Expectations r an emotional trap. They set us up 4 failure, disappointment and ultimately grief. They get us in2 trouble with others n with our sense of self.There is always pros n cons.. so i wudnt say expectations is all dat bad..just as long as u don let it b everythin..
-ranz-
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